1.Everything is a shade of gray (and that's okay).

世事都有灰暗的一面。

Happy people accept that the world is not "black or white", "all good or all bad." They can face the facts that they have some strengths and some limitations without shuddering; They accept that a person can be rude or show poor judgment in an instance and still not be completely selfish all the time. They truly know that just because something awful happens, their life is not all bad.

幸福的人认为世界不只有“黑白之分”，“好坏之分”。他们能够接受自身有一定的优点也有一定的缺点这一事实。他们能接受一个有时候会有些粗鲁，有时候没有好的判断力，但不总是只为自己的人。他们也清楚的知道生活中总会发生一些不好的事，但不会事事都不尽如人意。

2.All relevant things are based on facts.

一切都以事实为依据。

Happy people see themselves, others, and the world realistically, meaning they stick to the facts when they acknowledge the bad things and the good things. They don't think to "I forgot to turn off the oven."

幸福的人能看得到他们自己、别人以及这个真实的世界，也就是说他们承认生活中有好事、坏事的时候，他们是以事实为依据的。在他们忘记关烤箱的时候不会觉得自己“是个笨蛋”，他们只会觉得“是我忘记了”。

3.It's not all about me, and that's okay.

不全是关于我的，也没关系。

Content people believ: "I am not the best or the most handsome or the smartest or the most successful human being on the planet, and that's okay; Not everyone likes me, and that's okay; Often times people are focused on their own thoughts and perspectives more than they are focused on me, and that's okay.

幸福的人相信：“我不是地球上较好的/不是较帅的/不是罪聪明的/较成功的人也没关系。不是人人都喜欢我也没关系，通常来说人们关注他们自己的想法、自己的愿景要比关注我的多，即使是那样也没关系。”

4.It is okay to accept that things are what they are.

接受事物原本的模样。

People who are generally happy accept that people are sometimes irrational and hurtful, that obstacles and tragedies have occurred and there is no way to undo them, and that they will go through periods of pain and hardship in the future.

幸福的人能接受人偶尔的不理性、伤害别人的行为，知道在困难和麻烦已经发生，没办法回到过去，知道总会经受苦难和磨难。

5.This moment is worth enjoying.

这一刻值得好好过。

Happy people aren't telling themselves, "as soon as I get a better job, I'll be happy," or "When I find a boyfriend, I'll be happy." They truly believe that the small joys of everyday life are worth noticing and experiencing with enjoyment.

幸福的人不会对自己说“如果能早日找到一份更好的工作，我就会开心”或者“找到男朋友的时候我就快乐了。”他们知道每天生活中的小幸福也应该留心到，体味幸福。

更多详情关注广州韦博英语：http://m.soxsok.com/gzweibi/

广州天河北韦博英语学校：http://tianhebeiwebi.soxsok.com/